Have you ever found yourself in the place to console anyone?
Every now and then we see people get emotional around us.
Sometimes they experience tragedy.
Sometimes they just find out that life doesn't go as they planned.
Either case, they feel sad and it seems natural for you to console them.
But what would you say?
Would you say "I understand you."?
In my experience most people would.
But don't. Someone with high EQ would never say that.
Because it doesn't console anyone. It only hurts and makes people angry.
Everyone's life is unique. Everyone's experience is unique. Everyone's feeling is unique.
Don't assume that you know anyting about anyone.
'Cause you don't.
Just like nobody really understands you. And you don't want people to tell you that they do.