Changing a child need to start from changing parents. If parents change, the child can change.
Parents need to realize that, regardless of his education, or his own words and deeds has many problems, the first thing is to crowd out her body toxin bit by bit，so as to be real parents.
A child who grows up in a gentle, well-intentioned family will not have big problems on characters.
If children have problems on their characters and conducts, the responsibility is basically on their parents.
Every parent should use the power of a lifetime to say "I trust you, my child!"
The progress of any education is extremely difficult and slow. Instead of expecting the education change of the country, we should expect the improvement of education at school.
Instead of looking forward to the improvement of education, we should start from the improvement of family education. The future of children is not at school, but in their parents' hands.
No matter where you make a living, no matter how hard your life is, bring your children. Children are at risk when they are not with you.
The way back is the way home. Spending more time with your children is more important than anything else. Troubles in life are usually caused by not living at your own home.
Family has dinner together, which helps children get better nutrition, higher academic performance, less smoking, drinking, druging, fighting and early sex.
Even if only one parent could catch the dinner, it also works. Children's future, uaually has been decided in the dining room and the living room.
Don't scold the child during the meal. The table is a good place to share food, exchange ideas and knowledge.
Family affection also helps children to learn thanksgiving and table manners.
Do not to educate when your child is sleeping. when your child is always sleeping with fear and tears, his or her life will be very dull.
Happy child has companions, lonely child is easy to be eccentric.
Encouraging them to socialize with peers and participate in outdoor sports is the best gift that parents can give to their children.
How you treat your child everyday, will shape your face slowly.
Talk to your child face to face before age 6, and gradually change to shoulder to shoulder after age 6.
Because a child before age 6 cares about your attention to him, and teenagers don't want you to "stare at him", he prefers to talk to you in a friend's way, so he can open his heart more easily.
Parents should sincerely apologize to their children when they find themselves misreading their children.
A well-bred parent may not nurture a well-bred child, but it is certain that the child will suffer from a lack of parenting.
Treat your child's evaluation of teachers correctly, do not discuss or argue with the teacher in front of the child.
Don't discuss your child's strengths and weaknesses with your teacher or other parents in front of your child.
When children suffer from injustice or inhumane treatment at school, parents should take the initiative to communicate with school.
But at the same time, it must be realized that if the communication have no effect, you need to try to change a school for your child.
Even if the child has poor academic performance, parents should also encourage them to keep learning, put lower expectations, because which ultimately determine the future of the child is not his grades, but belief to keep learning.
When a child gets poor grades, the most important thing is that his parents don't get frustrated, manic, or lose confidence. Even if a child loses his school education, it doesn't means he lose his life.
If the parents lose hope, the child's life will be lost.