Leaving your kids with grandparents have some troubles.
They will love their grandchildren more than their own son, also they tend to think they have more experiences than their children, and they can make children have a better future.
Families of three generations have little or no chance of improvement once they quarrelled about raising their children, because the truth is often in the hands of the worst tempered.
The best way to settle the struggle for nurturing third-generation in the family is to live separately from the parents, and raise their own children by themselves.
The worst case is that you may temporarily hurt your parents' heart, but you can perform your duty well.
Parents who give their children to grandparents or nannies for the comfort of life are actually making a big bet with children's future.
In China, 60 percent of parents are extremely worried about their children's future, but less than 1 percent of parents are worried about their children's sleeping.
Actually the future of children will lose because of lack of sleep. A child who sleeps well will see the world differently.
If your child is feeling restless, check his sleep. If your family is in conflict, check your family's sleep.
As long as it comes from sincerity, it's better to give more praise and encouragement to your child.
When the child move forward, he will look back with the most eager eyes for encouragement.
In mother's love, two people who once were one are separated. Mother not only needs to be tolerant, she must also hope and support her child to be separated from her.
With love and concrete help, the mother separated the child from herself.
Diligence may not be able to fill in, far better than others.
Overburden leads to superficiality, and inevitably leads to the "academic exhaustion" in the follow study, which means early learning investment is excessive, follow study may lose the space of growth.
Any physical or mental illness is often the hardest to cure, if it can be traced back to childhood.
In the harsh test of education, it is helpful for children to grow up better by training them to be insensitive to grades.
If a child is falling behind, he will be hurt easily.So it is helpful for them to grow up better by training them to be insensitive to criticism and damage.
Respect their interests, encourage them to try. If the attempt fails, continue to encourage them to try something else until he finds what he love to do.
Every people all need necessary conditions for their growth. Talented children will need higher conditions, so "if Mozart was born in a peasant family, it is likely to become a disaster."
Every people all need necessary conditions for their growth. A child who have intelligence or health limitations will need higher conditions.
Parents should try their best to give help. Any progress of the child means a lot."
If a child is introverted and shy, let him be introverted and shy. What time to change themselves is his own business, you should not force him.
Educating child must have seperated consciousness, that is to say, separating the reason and responsibility of every thing.
Do not combine punishment for several crimes, Do not let the child wo take responsibilities that he can't bear.
Scolding and punishing children in public is almost a terrible torture.
Even if you think it's necessary to criticize or punish your child, you need to restraint yourself.
Being calm and avoiding making mistakes will help you.